HOW TO BE  RIDICULOUSLY SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE is a manual, written in a way that reader becomes immediately engaged. The ancient art of seduction is a lost art form. Noble Casalupus brings back seduction as an art form in this seriously written but humorous “how-to” guide.


HOW TO BE  RIDICULOUSLY SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE challenges the male reader to change their damaging beliefs and to understand that perception is the key to everything.

Changing your reality and experiencing growth comes with understanding of how your mind works and a burning desire to take a decisive action to make a difference in your life by setting goals. An example:

 Are you sabotaging your love life because of fear-based conclusions? 

Noble writes with the panache of a connoisseur … the savoir faire of an artist … packaged within the comedic strategy of a football coach. Readers are taught the mating dance from beginning to end. You’ll learn; how to get a woman to ask you out; take a woman home after just meeting her; dance with the intricate details of dating; all the way down to understanding the elusive female psyche.

The manual,  HOW TO BE  RIDICULOUSLY SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN FOR THE REST OF  YOUR LIFE, is designed to train both the left and right brain to use social techniques and charm, to instill Viking-like confidence and to implore man into action using the lost science of “toch-cha”. Touch her or make her feel.

Intimately involved with the work the author compels others to try the strategies for themselves; see the techniques in their minds eye and observe how they can put it into practice. It is truly a joint venture with the reader.

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Contact Noble Casalupus to attend a seminar, one-on-one session, or to get a copy of the manual,  HOW TO BE  RIDICULOUSLY SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. Begin your journey to a better romantic life today with Noble.

 

HOW TO BE RIDICULOUSLY SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE

TRIED AND TRUE PICK-UP AND SEDUCTION GUIDE FOR FINDING ROMANCE

 

By: Noble Casalupus

 

 

Introduction

 

“I like you, you’re different. There’s just something about you.”

“It feels like I’ve known you forever.”

I remember the first time I heard those sweet words. I was seventeen. What prompted these compliments? I did not know then but as you read on you will soon understand.

A WORD OF CAUTION!

By continuing this reading you agree not to hold Noble Casalupus or anyone involved, related or associated with Noble House Wolf for damages to your belief and/or the enlightenment that will possibly lead to self-loathing and/or anger. You understand the self-loathing will last only till the point when you decide to get up, get out and do something about your love life. If you agree, then read on. If not, please give this book as a gift and spread bliss and freedom of thought to another. The following information is not fiction but thesis.  If this book angers you in anyway because of content or technique, then for a month try to meet everyone you find attractive and ask them out on a date. When you recover, finish reading. Then you will understand why what I teach could work. (It does.) Remember my audios are available now if you want to hear how to apply the most powerful techniques in the book fast and easily. SeductionIsArt.com

 

Final Warning

NICE GUYS:  Do not finish this book if you want to remain nice guys. Seriously, you might get really good at meeting women. Nice guys don’t want that. IF YOU ARE WILLING TO STOP THE “NICENESS”, YOU WILL ATTRACT AND KEEP AS LOVERS, LOTS AND LOTS OF WOMEN.  No matter the age, race or background.

 

The trouble with man is that he can love without understanding. Love blindly. His love keeps him from realizing really what a woman is. She is a creature of feeling. His fantasies about her all too often give him a distorted view of reality. ~ Noble Casalupus

Definition of a Player: One who enjoys women and actively pursues them in the hopes of making them laugh, grow, dance for joy and finally sweep them off their feet. He loves to help them feel. He loves women and sees the beauty inside them. A player is wanted by a vast amount of women because he makes it safe for women to feel deeply. Women crave passion, compassion, soul elevation, love, strength and sex.

A player is interested in all her wants and chooses what he would like to give her.  He wants to have sex with the women of his choice and will use every aspect of the mating dance to reach that goal.  Sometimes would-be players get so caught up in the chase they forget to show love. Often a player’s motive isn’t sex. Often it’s the constant seeking of approval from women. This is because players can get sex anywhere because of their gift so they want to have a deeper richer experience and emotional connection. They want to have her on an emotional level. It’s more powerful then the physical. In essence the player has every other man beat. Most men can’t do what a player does: elicit strong feelings in a woman.

The down side to a player or wannabe, the frauds, is that they are “dogs”. “Dogs” abuse and take advantage of women. Their only goal is sex. Foolishly the two types go under the same name, “PLAYER”, when there is an obvious difference in goal.  A player lets a woman know he dates. A DOG tries to hide his other women. Girls love players and hate dogs.

I’ve often had my heart kicked in by women. I still love them. I enjoy every moment, minus the pain. Now, as you read on, my suggestion to you is to always show love and respect. Be truthful. Truth is subjective but I’m talking about lying to get something from a woman. This is unnecessary. Playing with the truth to get a laugh or make things run smoothly is another story. In any case, your conscience will let you know if you are having fun with her or LYING.

Remember: LOVE, RESPECT and HONESTY

 

 

 

 

 

 

CHAPTER 1

 

Popular Belief

(You have been lied to)

 

Truth is first ridiculed, then is fiercely persecuted and then seen as apparent.

 

It is common American belief that women do not want a “cocky” man. They don’t want a playboy. This is false. Gentleman, this belief is a scam, a lie, falsehood, sham, charade and plain make-believe. Players have relations with friends, sisters, girlfriends, wives and mothers. They want us because of who we are and what we provide. These are feelings, adventure, and laughter, wrapped in an ultra masculine package. [They want players. (as a player, these women just most of the time would like us to stop playing the field for them. this is understandable.)]

The fact of the matter is just this, as I explained my thoughts and actions in my reality during the course of writing this book, other less successful daters were baffled at my success and techniques. I might as well be speaking Phoenician. They don’t understand how we do what we do and how some techniques can possibly produce such fantastic outcomes.

The common belief is wrong. The fairy tales are wrong. Prince Charming, Romeo, whoever, wrong!  Those stories were not written by players. The characters were too busy having sex! The stories were written by outsiders looking in. They saw the looks, the flowers, jewelry, sweet talk but, never the game. They think this is the game. It’s not! As you read on you will learn how to talk to a woman and why most men fail miserably at it.

The first belief is erroneous. The second belief is that people aren’t the same. Well, that’s correct. Women aren’t men! These elements come from upbringing, culture and genes. This is a small fraction of what makes us human. It is fairly easy to turn most women on. The scam is we are made to BELIEVE that there isn’t a mating dance for the human species. We are made to BELIEVE that following a pattern can not drastically enhance your chances with a woman. That’s equal to saying strippers don’t turn men on. That’s poppy cock. What most men and women don’t realize is, just like men can get turned on by females easily, men can do the same to women. Not widely spread knowledge to say the least but, the few men having relations with most of the women will tell you the same. Go ahead and ask a man who’s great with women. He will tell you the same. As you read on I will attempt to make this mating dance apparent. You will see that this power is within you very grasp.

 

NOW, with the false beliefs out of the way, let us embark on a journey on what it takes to meet, attract and seduce a stranger. These topics introduced or reintroduced to you will have you meeting, dating, mating, and marrying.

As you come to understand what needs to be done always remember these words… IN ALL CASES a woman can’t give her number to everyone. Understand, she may be involved or having a bad day or both. Lastly, you can’t be “rejected” by someone who does not know you. Understand, she was not ready for your advance. What you are looking for is approachability. This is the key. If she lacks this trait, you should probably turn her down.

YOUR ALLIES

 

Confidence is your first major weapon in seduction. Would you follow someone who wasn’t confident? When you feel someone is lacking confidence, how do you see that person? Confidence is attractive. Just look at your favorite athletes. Are they people who don’t believe in themselves? No, absolutely not! They are confident. They believe. To acquire confidence one needs to know what he is doing. How can you learn and possess this personality trait?  EXPERIENCE AND KNOWLEDGE are the keys. Knowledge and success breeds confidence. As primates we learn most of what we know by being taught or by experience. Experience may be the best teacher but it takes too long. Yes, you could figure out E = mc2 on your own, but do you want to put in all that effort when there is an easier way? (Luckily you’re reading this book.) By learning and applying my methods you can conquer the fear of talking to women, avoid the mistakes most men make, easily meet women, receive phone numbers, seduce and sleep with beautiful girls. Women like and want to be seduced.

The power of confidence is so useful that it will drastically increase your dating. So, how do you build confidence? With knowledge!

I will teach you. Like anything, when you know the rules to the game, you can now play. The extent of how well you play is based on how well you follow the rules, improvise upon the rules; also how often you play.

Let’s dig deeper and see what’s going on.

COURAGE

Forced acts of courage will build confidence in a warrior. The act of approaching women will be easier every time you do it. This is the basic truth as you can see it in every activity one does in life. Practice makes perfect.

FEAR

One struggles with getting to know women because of fear of being placed on the spot and a possible negative outcome to the interaction. Men are afraid of rejection.  Rejection is really the biggest problem. Face it, if every time you courted a female she gave you her number you would do it all the time. The fact is most times you fail. This is the PROBLEM, FEAR OF FAILURE.  

Do not put women on a pedestal.  When you do you come from a position of weakness.

See a woman for what she is, just another person. You can not catch every fish in the sea but you can improve your chances. This is why I wrote this book. I want to help, YOU. YOU can increase your chances when you know what you are doing. Seduction is not a game of craps. Players don’t play craps. Nor is it luck. Players actually know what they are doing, how they are doing it and how well it’s going as they proceed. We have and follow patterns. Seduction follows rules. Your foundations for these rules are LOVE, RESPECT and HONESTY.

ALLY #2

THE PACKAGE

Do you even look like a worthy mate? Can you get even a first look? How is your posture? Are you standing up straight or are you hunched over? Do you work out or are you sloppy? Most women will put up with a pot belly but let’s maximize every opportunity. Working out will improve your health, stature and your confidence most importantly.

 

Do you have a flattering haircut and contemporary clothes? How about clean nails? Do you smell good? How are your teeth? Yellow perhaps? What about your breath? Yes, gentlemen, the details. First impressions gentlemen, lose this one and the match is over. She will never look twice. However a slight improvement in your physical appearance will increase your game. A better you is the goal. You can pick up women in any outfit you please; I’d advise it be neat however. There’s something for you in Gentleman’s Quarterly magazine and Men’s Fitness magazines even if you have your own style. Take a look at the clothes. No matter what, you must find flattering clothes no matter your size.

If you want to increase your chances of success and increase your confidence take your time shopping for items piece by piece.

Let’s talk about posture. Posture speaks to a woman’s sub-conscious mind. Standing tall emits a confidence that women love. It says ALPHA MALE. Are you walking around with you head tilted towards the floor? Are you walking the street like you are searching for nickels? Keep you head up and eyes towards the horizon. You might see somebody you want to meet. Better yet, someone may be smiling at you!

How about the glow? What is the glow, you ask? The glow is a look in the eyes of being wide awake carrying a hidden smile. Do you carry a gleam of a face that could readily smile? Or is your face dead pan? Expressionless, angry, preoccupied, or sad faces are serious turn offs. Have a face that can easily smile. Look happy. Believe it or not, faking happiness works almost as well as being happy. My friend, faking it will influence the subconscious mind and you WILL be happier. Here is your ally: the mirror. Take a long hard look at yourself.  Ask yourself, is this a man that has presence?  A look that says individual? Are you interesting? Do you have the presence, the posture, the “it” that makes people say, “That man has something!” Search a crowd to find people who have presence. Study them, nurture your own qualities and then you will be own your way!

ALLY #3

PERSONALITY  

(your personal weirdness)

Are you interesting? Hmmm…well, are you? An easy way to be interesting is to take interest in another person. People, especially women, love to talk about themselves.

A person’s favorite topic is themselves, capitalize on that. Another way to become interesting is to cram your head full of useful information; repeat funny stories that happened to you or someone you know; making fun of life (and yourself every now and then) and paying close attention to the other people in conversation. These are the elements of being interesting.

Let’s imagine you now in a bar scene. Your confidence is up and people are noticing you. There is a girl you’re eyeing. Let’s say she’s a difficult catch, a beauty that’s not going to open up to just anyone. Your secret weapon is still questions.

Now, all you need is a breach. A breach is a way to get past a women’s natural defense that protects her from engaging with just any guy. It’s what you do or say, or wear etc... that opens the door for you to chat up a woman. Better yet, have her approach or talk to you! Opening a flirting situation is always done better, non-verbally. The smiling, winking, eyebrow raise, corner of the eyes glance etc. (more on that later)

When questioning a woman it’s best not to get too personal unless she does first or in some minor cases it’s appropriate for, the conversation is leading there and the question is obviously fitting.  Getting too personal is a COMMON MISTAKE.

Questions that are too personal will put a woman on defense. It’s the worst way to start off. Avoid talk about sex, her dating availability, marriage situation, her address, etc. Personal information of this nature should be gathered on another day.

DO NOT ASK HER IF SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND. WHY? BECAUSE YOU DON’T CARE. (more on that later) Women are always looking to get picked up. It’s in their DNA and THEY WILL trade up like most men will cheat if offered hot sex and no risk of getting caught. Make sense?

You should have a stockpile of open-ended information-seeking questions committed to memory. This is a great weapon for your arsenal. ASK QUESTIONS! Follow the questions up with appropriate follow-ups. Change the subject when needed and learn to shut your mouth. When you are seducing, let the other person shine. Your ally in conversation with a female is LISTENING.  Listen to the woman. (Remember, without a doubt, a woman will tell you just she can be seduced, if you listen.)

Until you use these techniques often you won’t see how damn useful it is and how much it will help you.

 

Questioning on the phone and in person her experience with bad dates of the past, dealings ex-boyfriends, and “crimes” committed by men can save you a ton of time and mistakes with women.

CHAPTER 2

Techniques for Starting a Conversation

 

With the approaches below, YOU CAN and WILL meet more women ANYTIME, ANYWHERE no matter who she is or how she may look.

 

Important: You most be on a line of sight when you make an approach to ensure you do not scare her. Scaring her will make her defensive. Avoid an approaching from behind at all cost.

Direct Approach: This technique takes guts and has little tack for the most part but, works well if the woman is friendly. Direct approach works well when you are confident and your conversation skills are above par; and an absence of caring whether she talks to you or not. You don’t come off as needy and can move on at any time. You are not totally invested. I would say something interesting and bait her with topic teasers.

Topic teasers are statements or questions that have no ring of ordinariness and it is use to grab the full attention of whom you are talking to. Once you are engaged in conversation, you can move the subject to something even more interesting or go with the flow. Once she starts asking questions, you’re in for the moment. This is a great sign; take it as a Q2p (cue to proceed). Direct approaches are vital and you MUST have the guts to do them. You must make the effort to do them. Their value is greatest when the woman is about to disappear from your immediate area for any number of reasons and you have little time to meet her. You just have to go for it. Sometimes an opening statement can be just, “Hi.”, “Excuse me. You are amazing. I just had to stop you. What’s your name?” or “You have lots of style. Do you think if I talk to you long enough it will rub off on me?... By the way, I’m ______.” For a list of openers see Chapter 12 and then come back here and finish reading.

Compliment Approach: This is an easy approach and it can go one of 4 ways: a pleasant smile from her leading to a possible positive interaction; it can break the ice and with good rapport and can lead to a Q2p (cue to proceed); or a “thank you” and a brush-off or you can even be ignored! Depending on the reply your gut feeling should indicate if you should follow up with a question the will lead her to talk more about herself. This is the key: get her to talk. Again, being cool and not caring is a tact that will keep it less pushy and fun. It’s flirting. Example: “Your shoes are hot, I love it. Are you into fashion? …I can tell. You’re going to make a lot of ladies jealous today.”

Curveball Approach: A question or comment to a girl that has nothing to do with anything you could possibly care less about but it has merit because it’s relevant to the event that’s currently happening at the moment. Really, you’re “on the fly” with the conversation when you start it but you, a smart man have topic teasers and has questions memorized. (As do all great conversationalists, in and out of the pick-up game.)

Often it’s not a pick-up attempt; well, not at first. It’s just a simple observation that gets her attention which starts a conversation and leads to more questions and a turn of topic to her. Why? Well, she has perked your interest, hasn’t she? At least that’s what she thinks. Once you have your pretty girl talking you can proceed to the stockpile of topics and questions. Shoot the girl a compliment. Let her do the talking. This allows her to say something interesting so you may be intrigued and then, of course, ask her on a date. Take all opportunities to be funny. Making another laugh is a HIGH VALUE TRAIT. High value traits make you sexy. If you can make her laugh, getting a phone number will be a piece of cake. Example: “If it keeps raining like this I’m going to just go to work in a swimsuit!” or “This train is late again. The schedule should just say, “Well it depends.”

Ego Approach: Engaging in conversation that compliments her by asking an opinion. (Be truthful about what you want an opinion on.) Some women love to give opinions, otherwise known as, “I LIKE TO HEAR MYSELF TALK,” and will easily give you one. Agreeing with her offered opinion means you think like her and this brings you closer sub-consciously. For example, if you are shopping for a puppy and you show her some photos of some pups and you agree on getting the same breed for you the conversation will flow more natural then if you had different choices. You are best off going with her choice. Follow what’s being said and have a back-up twist (to add flare to the conversation often I just make the twist up) if she doesn’t have an opinion or even if she does. Depending on her answer be keen in being able to steer the conversation where you need it to go.  You want it to go smoothly. Work it so you can get a phone number. Example: “What do you think of this shirt? I thought it said “lady killer.” That’s why I bought it. (pause for reply) Should I get my money back?”

Instant Approach: When you use what the universe has given you. For example, an accident; a fellow tripping over your foot; her cell phone dropping; a friend on the other line that won’t let you hang up your cell phone; rotten fruit at the market; a man talking to himself; someone spilling a drink on your clothes; etc. These are gifts from the universe. This is an spontaneous approach and takes fewer guts. Turn to her and comment on what happened. Try to be humorous. You’re not really gaming but testing the water, looking for friendliness. She might laugh at your observation or look at you and smile with her eyes. She will never see it as hitting on her because it matched the situation perfectly. You are under the radar. Look for Q2p’s. If the waters are warm, keep talking, search for an item cool to compliment. Example: “You have pretty eyes” (or smile.) Have questions and topics handy. Try to close the interaction with a phone number.

Q2p’s – Cues to proceed can and generally are smiles, playing with hair, laughing, asking questions, asking you to dance, asking you to follow them at a party, touching you, lots of eye contact, winking.

Advice: You will have better luck with pick-up and conversion rate to dates if you meet women outside the dance clubs. (I say conversion rate because you have to hit on a lot of women to meet a lot of women.) You will have a better chance to close if you keep the conversation short.  Example 5 minutes or less - stores, markets, street, parking lot, the bus, airports, coffee shops, etc. There will be less chance of you saying something dumb and killing the attraction.

THE MOST IMPORTANT THING TO REMEMBER AFTER AN OPENING OR APPROACH IS TO ASK A DEEP AND FEELING DRAWING QUESTION. 

This makes you different and produces a MOMENT that you two share. This is done by asking a “normal” question which is then followed by a “deep” question.

Ex: “Where were you born? …Good times in _____? …I find memories fascinating. They are like dairies! What is you fondest memory from childhood? How old were you? I can’t believe you remember that! WOW…”

Ex: “What did you want to be when you grew up? …No way! …You’re too cute. How old were you? What made you want to do that! WOW… Are you that now? …haha…No?  When did you decide to give up the dream?”

The Time Frame

(The moment you see each other)

 

You have about 15 seconds to assess you situation once you both make eye contact. I say 15 seconds to assess because I know you aren’t going to let her go. You want her right?

So, I say assess because if you don’t you’re going to be busy wussing out and talking yourself out of a potential pick-up.  (Every second that goes by as you are right in her proximity makes you more nervous and if you are just staring she’ll notice and throw you in the category of loser real fast)

Don’t be that guy; choose your opening pitch. Draw on your topic teasers and the compliments. Ideally you want the focus off you and on her. Example: “How are you doing? …Your shoes are smoking!” or “Don’t you love this weather, cool breeze and warm sun?”

Use the time to get ready, not to debate whether you are going for it or not. Most likely you will talk yourself out of it if you wait. 

 

This might sound like a contradiction but if you can wait, move slower. Don’t rush to talk to the girl if you can wait 45 seconds. Making seductive eye contact twice first before you go in for the approach works better. This will give her a chance to catch you looking.

PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT!

WAIT! You’re going to love this; sometimes you only have 8 to10 seconds to go for it. Sometimes you need to be quick. She could be on the move. So, always be prepared with ammo or be ready to kick yourself all day. Don’t kick yourself all day, TALK TO HER!  You never know what will happen. She may very well end up in your bed.

Even I still talk myself out of chatting up a girl. It’s because I think, not act. The clock starts as soon as she sees you. The 15 second rule is really there so you don’t wuss out. OBEY IT.

She cues you for an approach in a social environment:   Roughly, she gives you a look. The one your mother, teacher, sister and female classmates never gave you. It’s the look of sexual interest. The clock starts: depending on the circumstance you have 2 minutes to 10 minutes to talk to this girl. Don’t rush, she cued you. But if you don’t talk to her you look weak and lose masculinity points provided you like her back and you bother to keep looking her way. This is a subconscious decision on her part and she may often reject your approach if you have taken to long to approach her. Each girl has her internal clock when it comes to advances. She knows you saw her. If you don’t act she will be lost, possibly forever. (The age of the woman helps buy you time, age 30+ and availability of men in the area also does the same.)

The truth about time:  Really we can hit on women all day and you will win some and lose some; the rejection is the problem. This is why acting fast and being prepared with your weapons will help. If you are able to move within 15 seconds or less you won’t succumb to FEAR. FEAR is you worst enemy! If it wasn’t for fear, we all would be picking-up girls.  Let’s say she’s walking the other way. How much time do you have? Not much. Be prepared and go into action. You know what to say, say it. Say something. Say anything! She just might stop and talk!

Remember:  If you get cued at a bar, restaurant or outdoors you are getting a special invite. She’s available. (If you’re not the only available male, the invite may go out again but, to another.) If you get a deliberate look, get your ass over there. I had to learn this the hard way. Don’t make the mistakes I made by freezing. Go for it. She is making it easy for you.

If you are drinking at the bar, put down that drink and march over there. Immediately stop talking to your fruity friends. If she’s at a table at a restaurant, march over there and introduce yourself. Say for example: “I’m [your name], I saw you looking over and I thought you recognized me and I didn’t recognize you. I thought that would be extremely embarrassing and you’d probably talk about me all night. So, I saved us the trouble of all that. [pause] Do I know you?” “No.”  “Well, it looks like I do now! [smile,pause] What’s your name?”

EASY, RIGHT?

The Question Game

(An easy way to get to know your new friend)

When you have had the chance to become friendly with your new girl and you know she feels comfortable around you, you may introduce a way to get to know each other better. I suggest the Question Game. The Question Game works well over the phone too, especially if you are already having a good time conversing. Suggest to your new friend that the two of you play a fun game. If she agrees then tell her the rules. The rules are simple. She asks a question and then you answer truthfully. Then you ask a question back to her where then she answers truthfully and repeats the process with another question.

Don’t get to personal unless she does first. This is a fun and easy way to get to know each other. Feel free to pause the game and talk about her answer so the game can take a twist into normal conversation. Gentlemen, this is a game based on the formula of every great conversationalist. If you can make this simple game flow naturally you will be stunned at how many females you can meet on a weekly basis and engage in conversations.

Here’s what you’ve been waiting for. This is why most guys don’t get any action and here it is…YOU CAN’T get a girl to give you a number to call.  Let’s take a look at this in the next chapter.

CHAPTER 3

The Phone Number

(Assuming the sale)

Can you walk up to a random woman and ask for her phone number? NO.

So, how do you start and how do you finish?

Well, let’s start here. How about you stop smiling so much when you see a girl that blows your mind. You look like you don’t get laid. Stop staring at the goddesses; you look like a stalker that never dates beautiful women. Believe me, when I say they can smell that sh*t all over you! Women smell weak male.  (This isn’t me talking. Women have said this to me in confidence and really they knew I wasn’t like that so, they could tell me what they thought.) I want to help every guy. I really love you guys. Don’t be that guy.

Note: If she smells money she will play with you, for a while. You’ll be lucky enough to be the ATM. You might even get some action sometime in the future after you spend enough money. Cool, right? Yeah, and right after your date the playboy gets ready to come over soon as you drop her off at home! Trust me, I’ve dated women who were on a date just before I came over to spend the night. That’s WILD, RIGHT?

Really, there is no correct formula to receiving a phone number. A player must be ready for what comes up. It’s a new puzzle every time. Practice makes you better and enables you to assess your sexy interest and produce the right moves to capture her mind and emotions. Practice keeps you from freezing when you see the one you like. Pick-up follows a pattern of invited and uninvited approaches: basic greetings or approach styles, topic teasers, eye-contact, compliments, teasing, humor, and warm non-sexual touching.

Play it cool and never look sold on her. When you ask for a number let it look like it’s a decision you just made, not because she’s hot but because she’s interesting. Your conversation must make her say something about herself to make the hottie believe it wasn’t just her looks at all but, her “all so f&*king wonderful personality” that sold you.

Sometimes it’s true and sometimes it’s not.  Hopefully, it will be. Without this you’re just a guy who wants to have sex with her. You have to set it up so she sells you on her. Really, you can’t see her personality from across the room but you did see that body!  Note:  Save yourself a lot of trouble, ACTUALLY LIKE THE GIRL. They are not toys. They are not wind up dolls. To tell you the truth, when you practice the techniques in this book you will find that women are 80% exactly alike. Ask any man who’s good with women. I mean really, how do you think they do it? Are they that good or are women very similar?

After entertaining her, setting her up to fall for your advance is easy for she’ll love to prove herself to an entertaining chap. If she’s exciting, then this is made easy. If she’s a little boring then it’s tougher; you have to help her look good. Help her shine, then proceed to “close her” like you will be shown later in this chapter. You’re trying to show her you don’t go around collecting numbers and she has to be worthy to be in contact with you. You don’t talk to just anyone, right? That’s not a player, that’s a dog.

 

Make her feel like she passed a little test.  Hot girls are use to attention and sometimes don’t work at all to be pleasant or earn affection. They don’t have to, they are hot. Change the game on them. Make her prove herself!

You guys are going to do fine if you’re just starting out. You’ll have so much fun trying.

Seduction is fun and she’ll love it. You can do it!

Just remember: LOVE, RESPECT, and HONESTY.

Finally, the magic answers to the question you have been anticipating. How do I ask for her phone number?

Confidently ask or cheerfully tell her to give it to you. If you produced enough laughter, intrigue, and emotions in a female they will have no problem letting you call them provided they TRUST you. (More on humor, intrigue, and emotional triggers later.)

 

Example: “You’re cool. Give me your number.”  Surprisingly commands work. Women have no problem taking commands from a real man. Yes, I phrased that sentence correctly. You’ll see what I mean as you continue to read and finish this book. You will start to understand what it is we do and how we do it. In nature only the best get to mate. Some guys are so lucky we evolved and society introduced marriage, or you would never have sex, let alone kids. Your genes would be wiped out of existence.

Example: Take out your phone (or paper) and start typing in her name. That’s called “assuming the sale.” Grab her phone number next.  That’s what a leader would do. That’s Alpha. Is that a little scary? Just do it and be convinced!

Example: Suggest you go out.  She says, “Sure”, for example. Then suggest two days. (Wednesday or Thursday) She says, “Wednesday.” Then say, “Cool, I’ll take your number. What is it?”

Do you see?  EASY!

Remember, try to get the girl to agree to meet you. If they don’t TRUST you enough to meet you then, what the f&*k is the point of getting a number?

Example: FIRST INCH: “Here’s my e-mail. What’s yours?”  “Great.” “And here’s my phone number? What’s yours?”  “Cool.”  “Okay, we’ll be in contact then.” “Have a great day, bye.”

That’s the see-saw move and the trick is that it feels natural. It works very well and it’s easy. The hardest thing to do in life is to get the first inch. Use my methods and see how easy pick-ups can be. I use methods that cause a woman to go in the direction I wish to lead them. Permission for me to do this is granted by their participation in every step I take. See, there’s no manipulation. They are active characters in their own storybook romance. They are participants in their own seduction. We are just the narrators.

 

Try it. You will be great at it!

BASIC QUESTIONS TO ASK WHEN SCREENING ON THE PHONE

 

DO NOT READ OFF LIKE A LIST WHEN CONVERSING

What part of town are you from?

How long have you been living there?

What’s you favorite Drink? Food? Cocktail?

How would your friends describe you?

What’s your sign, birthday?

What do you do? What would you rather be doing?

Who are you most like, your mom or dad?

How many siblings do you have?

Where is your family from?

Do you like to travel? Where have you been? What’s your fantasy trip?

What attracts you first to a guy?

Why did you break-up with you last boyfriend?

What do you notice first about a guy?

What’s your favorite activity? Hobbies?

What was the worst job you ever had?

What did you want to be when you grew up? When did you decide different?

What characteristics make you a good girlfriend?